Salvation Steps: Are You Saved? Get Saved Now!

 

Vital Soul Winning Admonition!

 

Eternity In Heaven: Why Is It Compulsory To Be Born Again?

According to John 3:3-16; 14:6, to be allowed to pass through Heaven’s gate, you need to have all of your sins removed. The only cleanser strong enough to thoroughly remove sin stains is the blood of Lord Jesus Christ. To become born again, first, admit your sinful state. Next, ask Lord Jesus Christ to forgive you of your wrong doings. Finally, make Lord Jesus Christ Lord of your life by surrendering your will to Him.

Ask Lord Jesus Christ to come into your heart and to forgive your sins. By dying on the Cross, Lord Jesus Christ made it possible for each of us to be granted a full pardon from the punishment of eternal damnation in burning Hell fire! The reason so few people accept this pardon is that they do not think they need a Savior or they want to find their own way of salvation.

When God looked at your soul, He saw a sinner. God judges your heart, your thoughts, your attitude and intentions. When you are saved and forgiven of your sins, God looks upon you and sees the blood of Lord Jesus Christ making you pure and clean. Accept the salvation of Lord Jesus Christ now! Tomorrow will be too late! Procrastination is dangerous! Avoid the continuous torment of eternal burning Hell fire!

Many doomed souls are now suffering horribly in eternal burning Hell fire due to procrastination! Don’t join these doomed souls in eternal burning Hell fire! Heaven is your best choice! You have been warned!

Is your name written in the Heavenly Book of Life? Revelation 20:11-15; John 3:3-16, 14:6. To have your name written in heavenly Book of Life, you must accept Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior. You can’t be neutral. You are either a true follower of Lord Jesus Christ or a doomed follower of Satan.

 “But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8).

This Biblical quotation will condemn you to eternal damnation after your physical death. Lord Jesus Christ will judge you on Great White Throne Judgment day (John 5:22-29; Revelation 20:11-15, 21:8). You can still escape this eternal doom in the lake of fire and sulfur since you are still alive. Repent and accept Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior now! Today may be your last day before death. Avoid Hell! Heaven is your best choice.

What is the Great White Throne Judgment? At the Great White Throne Judgment of God, the soul/spirit of condemned people in eternal burning Hell fire will merge with their immortal bodies. In their immortal resurrected forms, they will be judged by God. It will be a judgment of condemnation, no appeal or mercy again. The verdict will be: “Guilty!”

One can only repent while still alive. One can only accept the salvation of Lord Jesus Christ while still alive. The resurrected condemned people will be cast into the eternal lake of fire and sulfur (Revelation 20:11-15, 21:8). The “second death” means eternal separation from God in the horrible lake of fire and sulfur. Repent now! Tomorrow will be too late! Heaven and Hell are real! Heaven is your best choice. Don’t go to eternal burning Hell fire!

Satan, the deceiver and his fallen angels/demons will be thrown and confined totally into the lake of fire and sulfur eventually by God. They will be tormented forever. That will be the end of Satan’s evil activities on Earth forever. “The devil, who deceived them, was cast into the lake of fire and sulfur…and they will be tormented day and night forever and ever” (Revelation 20:10).

You will be eternally separated from God in the lake of fire and sulfur. Your soul will never die but it will be eternally tormented in the horrible burning lake of fire and sulfur (Revelation 21:8).

Lord Jesus Christ loves you. No more excuse for you if you die as an Atheist, Agnostic, Freethinker, Muslim or an unbeliever. God is real! Lord Jesus Christ is real! Holy Spirit is real! Heaven and Hell are real! You have been warned! Repent before it is too late! Great White Throne Judgment day is certain! Lord Jesus Christ is the “ONLY WAY” to Heaven, no other ways (John 14:6). Are you a cold or lukewarm believer? Be hot for Lord Jesus Christ and ready always for prophetic glorious Rapture!

Lord Jesus Christ is the only way to make Heaven and escape from going to eternal burning Hell fire when you die (John 14:6). The lake of fire and sulfur will be a place of eternal torment. It will be very terrible for Satan, fallen angels/demons and the lost souls in that eternal burning lake of fire. Do not end up in it! You can’t die again in your immortal resurrected form but you will be eternally tormented in the fiery lake of fire and sulfur (Revelation 14:11). No rest for you for eternity!

Listen to what Lord Jesus Christ is saying to you now: “Do not be afraid! I am the First and the Last. I am the One who lives. I was dead, but look: I am alive forever and ever! And I hold the keys of death and Hell.” (Revelation 1:17-18). God does not send someone to Hell. You choose Hell when you refuse to accept Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal Savior.

When you refuse God’s love gift of eternal life in Lord Jesus Christ, you willingly choose Hell. Your soul will be tormented for eternity in eternal burning Hell fire when you die. When you say “No” to Lord Jesus Christ and His payment for your sins, you are saying that you are looking forward to dying and being cast into eternal burning Hell fire. You are telling God that you do not need Lord Jesus Christ. You will pay for your sins in eternal burning Hell fire! Hell is for eternity!

If you die without accepting the salvation of Lord Jesus Christ, you will be tormented in eternal burning Hell fire and for eternity in lake of fire and sulfur. You will despair of ever having any deliverance! You will beg for death to come and take you away! However, you can only die once (Hebrews 9:27). Purgatory is a false doctrine. Reincarnation is a great satanic deception. Do not let Satan deceive you with false doctrines again.

It will be a great disaster if you die without accepting the salvation of Lord Jesus Christ (Mark 8:36). Eternal burning Hell fire and lake of fire and sulfur are horrible places of eternal torment! “The smoke from their burning pain will rise forever and ever. There will be no rest, day or night.” (Revelation 14:11).

“Then I saw a great white throne and Him who sat upon it, from whose presence earth and heaven fled away, and no place was found for them. And I saw the dead, the great and the small, standing before the throne, and books were opened; and another book was opened, which is the book of life; and the dead were judged from the things which were written in the books, according to their deeds.

And the sea gave up the dead which were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead which were in them; and they were judged, every one of them according to their deeds. Then death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. This is the second death, the lake of fire. And if anyone’s name was not found written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire.” (Revelation 20:11-15).

God has a perfect place for you in Heaven: “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no person has imagined what God has prepared for those people that love Him.” (1 Corinthians 2:9). Avoid eternal burning Hell fire! Avoid lake of fire and sulfur!

Lord Jesus Christ is your only way of making Heaven after physical death on Earth (John 14:6). It will not cost you anything to accept Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Savior. Accept Lord Jesus Christ while you are still alive. It will be too late if you die and end up in eternal burning Hell fire! Take the right decision now. “The salvation that was given to us is very great. So surely we also will be punished if we live like this salvation is not important.” (Hebrews 2:3).

After being born again, remain dedicated in your commitment to our Lord Jesus Christ. Salvation is an act of faith (John 3:3-16, 5:24). Believe strongly that you are saved in Jesus name. Don’t doubt. The Holy Spirit will help to strengthen your faith in Lord Jesus Christ. Make sure you continue to grow in your devotion to Lord Jesus Christ. Don’t backslide or become lukewarm. You must always resist temptation that can lead you to indulge in sinful acts. Read your Bible daily. Also, pray always and look for a reliable Gospel-focused Church where you can worship God regularly.

Glorious Rapture is our blessed hope and a prophetic reality. Therefore, we must be ready always. You can’t know the day or hour of prophetic glorious Rapture (Matthew 24:36). Rapture is a matter of faith and continuous suspense. Since we can never know the day or hour of prophetic glorious Rapture, we must always be ready.

The grace period we have presently is short. Time is running out. The warning signs of prophetic glorious Rapture are now occurring regularly in every part of the Earth. Lord Jesus Christ is warning us regularly through numerous warning messages to be ready always. Never give up your glorious Rapture blessed hope (Titus 2:13).

If you have never received Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior, ask Him to save you now! Confess all your sins and ask God to forgive you in Jesus name. Do not put it off another second! This may be your last chance before you die! Take the chance now!

The salvation of Lord Jesus Christ is very important. Remain steadfast. Heaven will be your eternal home in Jesus name. It is very easy to accept the salvation of Lord Jesus Christ. To accept Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior, pray the salvation prayer below and mean it with all your heart.

Sinner’s Prayer of Salvation:

The following prayer, “The Sinner’s Prayer” (also known as the Prayer of Salvation) is a simple prayer to follow when asking Lord Jesus Christ into your heart. The basis of the Sinner’s Prayer comes from Romans 10:9-10. “That if thou shall confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and shall believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead, thou shall be saved. For with the heart man believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.”

Dear God in Heaven, I come to you in the name of Jesus. I acknowledge to You that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for my sins and the life that I have lived; I need your forgiveness. I believe that Lord Jesus Christ shed His precious blood on the cross at Calvary and died for my sins, and I am now willing to turn from my sin.

You said in Your Holy Word, Romans 10:9 that if we confess the Lord our God and believe in our hearts that God raised Jesus Christ from the dead, we shall be saved. Right now I confess Jesus Christ as the Lord of my soul. With my heart, I believe that God raised Lord Jesus Christ from the dead.

This very moment I accept Lord Jesus Christ as my own personal Savior and according to His Word, right now I am saved. Thank you Lord Jesus Christ for your unlimited grace which has saved me from my sins. I thank you Lord Jesus Christ that your grace never leads to license, but rather it always leads to repentance. Therefore Lord Jesus transform my life so that I may bring glory and honor to you alone and not to myself. Thank you Lord Jesus Christ for dying for me and giving me eternal life. Amen.

Still Procrastinating?

Take these easy steps to be saved: Realize you are a sinner. “There is no person without sin. None!” (Romans 3:10). “All people have sinned and are not good enough for God’s glory.” (Romans 3:23). Realize you cannot save yourself. “We are all dirty with sin. Even our good works are not pure. They are like blood-stained rags.” (Isaiah 64:6). “He saved us because of His mercy (love), not because of any good things we did.” (Titus 3:5).

Realize that Lord Jesus Christ died on the cross to pay for your sins. “Christ carried our sins in his body on the cross. He did this so that we would stop living for sin and live for what is right.” (1 Peter 2:24). “Jesus is the one who loves us. And Jesus is the One who made us free from our sins with his blood (death).” (Revelation 1:5).

Simply by faith receive Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Savior. “Some people did accept Him. They believed in Him. He gave something to those people who believed. He gave them the right to become children of God.” (John 1:12).

“…Sirs, what must I do to be saved? And they said, Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved, you and all these people from your house.” (Acts 16:30-31). “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believe in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16).

36 Vital Facts You Don’t Know About The Heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ.

 

What Is Heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ?

Romans 14:10-12 says, “For we will all stand before God’s judgment seat…so then, each of us will give an account of himself to God.”

Second Corinthians 5:10 tells us, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may receive what is due him for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad.” 

In the context, it is clear that both scriptures are referring to born again Christians, not unbelievers. What are the vital facts you don’t know about the heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ? The 36 essential guidelines below will enlighten you extensively.

1.

The heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ involves born again Christians giving an account of their lives to our Lord Jesus Christ. The heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ does not determine salvation; that was determined by Christ’s sacrifice on our behalf (1 John 2:2) and our faith in Him (John 3:16).

When we accepted the salvation offer of our Lord Jesus Christ, our sins are forgiven and we will never be condemned for them (Romans 8:1).

2.

We should not look at the heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ as God judging our sins, but rather as Lord Jesus Christ rewarding us for our lives. Yes, as the Bible says, we will have to give an account of ourselves. This is going to be the primary focus of the heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ after the prophetic glorious Rapture.

3.

Indeed, a backslidden Preacher or backslidden Christian can end up in eternal burning Hell fire after physical death (2 Peter 2:1-22). Also, a cold or lukewarm Christian can be left behind by Lord Jesus Christ on prophetic glorious Rapture day (Revelation 3:14-22).

4.

As born again Christians, we must always be Christ-focused, repent always from any known or hidden sins, remain heavenly minded, committed to active soul winning, avoid eternal burning Hell fire, avoid lukewarm spiritual condition, be hot always spiritually and ready always for the prophetic glorious Rapture.

We can’t make Heaven by personal efforts or self-righteousness. We can only make Heaven by the great mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ.

5.

Lord Jesus Christ is alive in Heaven and He is coming back on prophetic glorious Rapture day. We must be ready always for the prophetic glorious Rapture because it is a Biblical and prophetic event (1 Corinthians 15:51-52; 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17).

Surely, no one can know the day or hour of prophetic glorious Rapture because it is a Divine and suspense filled Biblical event (Matthew 24:36; Mark 13: 32-33; Luke 21:34-35).

6.

It is true that prophetic glorious Rapture is overdue but we must never give up our blessed hope (Titus 2:13). Don't let unbelievers and Rapture scoffers discourage you. Lord Jesus Christ is always warning us regularly through numerous prophetic messages and end time signs to be ready always.

Unbelievers and Rapture scoffers will be shocked greatly when prophetic glorious Rapture occurs eventually suddenly and unexpectedly! Raptured or left behind? Decide wisely!

7.

Many born-again Christians are getting ready for the prophetic glorious Rapture but some of them may not be fully aware that they will give account of their service for Lord Jesus Christ while on Earth.

The heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ will be for born again Raptured Saints when they get to heavenly New Jerusalem on prophetic glorious Rapture day (Romans 14:10-12; 2 Corinthians 5:10). The great mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ will make us rapturable. Amen.

8.

At the heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ after the prophetic glorious Rapture, all dedicated Rapture watchers will get the crown of righteousness from Lord Jesus Christ because they are perpetually ready for His glorious appearance in the sky. Since they are dedicated Rapture watchers, the crown of righteousness will be the reward for perpetual watchfulness.

9.

At the Judgment Seat of Christ in Heaven after the prophetic glorious Rapture, there is a crown of righteousness that Lord Jesus Christ will place on the heads of all dedicated Rapture watchers because they eagerly love, watch and await His glorious appearance in the sky (2 Timothy 4:7-8).

10.

There will also be awarded the crown of rejoicing for active soul-winners for Lord Jesus Christ (1 Thessalonians 2:19-20). There will also be an incorruptible crown for overcoming the old nature (1 Corinthians 9:25-27).

There will also be a crown of life for enduring persecution and trials while on Earth (James 1:12; Revelation 2:10).

11.

There will be a crown of glory for shepherding the flock of Christ (1 Peter 5:4). The crown of glory is a special crown that will be awarded by Lord Jesus Christ to dedicated men and women of God who share or teaches the Word of God (Holy Bible) regularly with people in the churches and everywhere both online/offline.

They could be Evangelists, Ministers, Pastors, Prophets, Deacons, Sunday school teachers, Child Evangelism teachers or anyone who teaches the “Word of God” faithfully to others. Such individuals will be adequately rewarded by Lord Jesus Christ for their dedication and commitment to sharing the eternal Gospel of Lord Jesus Christ and encouraging the faith of other believers-in-Christ. 

12.

Lord Jesus Christ is the “Word of God” (John 1:1-5). By God’s grace, you will be entitled to any of these glorious crowns in Heaven as a glorified raptured Saint at the heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ after the prophetic glorious Rapture.

13.

At the heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ, born again believers are rewarded based on how faithfully they served Lord Jesus Christ while on Earth (1 Corinthians 9:4-27; 2 Timothy 2:5). Some of the things we will be judged on are how well we obeyed the Great Commission of Lord Jesus Christ (Matthew 28:18-20), how victorious we were over sin (Romans 6:1-4) and how well we controlled our tongues (James 3:1-9).

14.

The Bible speaks of born again Christians receiving crowns for different things based on how faithfully they served Lord Jesus Christ (1 Corinthians 9:4-27; 2 Timothy 2:5). The various crowns are described in 2 Timothy 2:5, 2 Timothy 4:8, James 1:12, 1 Peter 5:4 and Revelation 2:10. 

James 1:12 is a good summary of how we should think about the Judgment Seat of Christ. “Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love Him.”

15.

After prophetic glorious Rapture, at the heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ, glorified raptured believers whose faithful service provides them with genuine rewards that survive the divine fire test will receive many crowns from Lord Jesus Christ.

16.

Since the Bible tells us that we will reign with Lord Jesus Christ (2 Timothy 2:12) when He comes to reign in His Millennial kingdom (Revelation 20:4), it is obvious what these crowns signify, for crowns are for Rulers. That is compatible with His (Lord Jesus Christ) parable of the pounds, in which He promised to give rewards according to service by saying, “I will make you ruler over ten cities.” (Luke 19:11-27).

17.

The reason heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ will occur before the Millennial kingdom is that glorified Saints can be assigned to opportunities of service according to the faithful use of their talents in directly advancing Christ’s spiritual kingdom in this present life.

18.

According to 1 Corinthians 3:12-13, some of our heavenly treasure (good works) will be "gold, silver, or precious jewels,” meaning that they will survive the divine fire test and the born again believer will receive a reward.

What you should also see in this passage is that “the wood, hay and stubble” (bad works) do not survive the divine fire test and the born again believer suffers loss of reward– not loss of salvation.

19.

The reason “bad works” don’t qualify to abide the divine fire test and earn a reward is because they have not been done with the right motive. To the eyes of people, they may look like silver, gold and precious stones, but in reality before Lord Jesus Christ, they are nothing but wood, hay and stubble.

20.

The reality of the divine fire test will reveal what sort it is, whether good or bad. The heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ will reveal all truth because the works mentioned in 1 Corinthians 3 evidently all looked alike until after the fire “tested every man’s work what sort it was.” 

There would be no purpose in fire testing straw or wood or stubble– unless they looked the same as gold, silver or jewels. It is the holy test of fire that determines whether the “works” were really “good or bad.”

21.

To the church, Pastor or fellow born again Christians, a person’s “Christian service” may look like “good works,” but his or her “evil motive” or “hidden counsels” will be revealed by Lord Jesus Christ at this heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ and the born again believer will lose his or her reward because his or her motive was one of self-seeking or hypocrisy.

22.

A born again Christian can lose his or her crown, receive less than a full reward, and “suffer loss” even when expecting rewards. Some of the things that could cause a loss of reward are good things done with an evil motive and hidden counsels of the heart that are displeasing to Lord Jesus Christ.

23.

In essence, God’s work should be done in God’s way- with a pure heart and a desire to glorify Lord Jesus Christ, or else there will be no reward, or at least a diminished reward. Everything you are doing for the Lord Jesus Christ must be done willingly and due to pure love of Christ. That is the best motive that will be rewarded at the heavenly Judgment Seat of Christ.

24.

Lord Jesus Christ is the King of kings and Lord of lords (Revelation 19:16). Therefore, as a King or Queen, you will reign with the King of kings (Lord Jesus Christ) throughout the 1,000 years reign of our Great King Jesus Christ (Revelation 20:4). 

25.

During the Millennial kingdom period, the part of the world where you will rule and your responsibilities during the Millennial kingdom period will be determined by King Jesus Christ. You will report regularly to Almighty King Jesus Christ to brief Him about the progress of your administration. As a glorified raptured Saint, you will remain an immortal being forever (1Corinthians 15:51-53). Glory be to God. Hallelujah.

26.

Because we are saved “by grace… through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast”(Ephesians 2:8-9), many born again Christians think there is little or no call on their life presently to serve our Lord Jesus Christ. Consequently, they accept the salvation of Lord Jesus Christ as a gift and do nothing to advance His heavenly kingdom afterward.

27.

Unfortunately, they do not read on to the following verse: “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.” (Ephesians 2:10). By reading this passage, the Lord Jesus Christ expects His true followers (born again Christians) to work for Him after they have been given salvation.

28.

In fact, we will be rewarded in the Millennial kingdom period in direct proportion to the way we have served the Lord Jesus Christ presently (Matthew 20:1-16, 25:14-30; Luke 19:11-27). Therefore, we are expected, once saved, to serve our Lord Jesus Christ dedicatedly.

29.

Your dedicated service for the Lord Jesus Christ can be anything done in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, or for His glory. It could be active soul winning, worshiping Him dedicatedly or even giving a “cup of cold water” in His name (Matthew 10:40-42). 

Giving a “cup of cold water” in His name (Lord Jesus Christ) implies any act of kindness or charitable support rendered to the poor or the needy like the Biblical Good Samaritan. Lord Jesus Christ loves a kind, cheerful giver (Philippians 4:19). 

30.

Lord Jesus Christ will reward us according to our faithfulness, talent and time spent in serving Him selflessly. Talent times our productive sharing of the Gospel (Evangelism) times the time we had after our salvation to labor for Lord Jesus Christ will equal our eternal rewards.

31.

The record of our dedicated service is kept by Lord Jesus Christ, who knows what ability we have to serve Him and will hold us accountable for how we use our talents and time for service. Lord Jesus Christ is a just God and He will treat each born again Christian according to his/her works, based on his/her ability (Matthew 6:19-21).

In the mercy of Lord Jesus Christ, He has not only given us salvation totally free, but He also gives us an opportunity to invest a portion of our “treasure” (our life) in eternal rewards.

32.

The Lord Jesus Christ is not interested in having us serve Him faithfully for just a few years, but rather for our entire lifetime. “Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 15:58).

33.

Our eternal reward is in Heaven for everything we do on Earth for Christ sake. Our eternal treasure is in Heaven. Our continuous labor presently for our Lord Jesus Christ is being recorded always by the holy Angels. Our selfless service for our Lord Jesus Christ will be bountifully rewarded in Heaven at the Judgment Seat of Christ (Romans 14:10-12; 2 Corinthians 5:10).

34.

You will not take to Heaven on prophetic glorious Rapture day anything you have acquired on this sinful Earth. You will only ascend to Heaven on prophetic glorious Rapture day as a glorified Saint in your glorious white garment of righteousness (Revelation 19:8, 14).

Therefore, make sure you utilize your divine calling, time, talents and God given resources to evangelize zealously and win many souls for Lord Jesus Christ in this grace period while awaiting the prophetic glorious Rapture.

35.

Don’t be a spectator born again Christian. Our eternal treasures and eternal rewards are reserved for us in heavenly New Jerusalem, kept safe for us by our Lord Jesus Christ. As profitable servants of Lord Jesus Christ, we will be bountifully rewarded at the Judgment Seat of Christ when we get to Heaven on prophetic glorious Rapture day.

36.

Don’t be an unprofitable servant who will have no eternal rewards in Heaven. The holy Angels of God are daily recording everything we are doing on Earth for the sake of the Gospel of Lord Jesus Christ and any help we render for the poor and needy.

8 Negative Factors That Cause Delay in Marriage for Single Ladies/Guys!

In our contemporary society, it is very common to come across many matured ladies who are overdue for marriage but yet are still single and searching. Therefore, spinster is a term referring to an unmarried woman who is older than what is perceived as the prime age range during which women usually marry. 

Online dating sites, religious worship centers and many social media networks are usually full of these depressed and desperately searching ladies. What is generally responsible for this rampant anomaly? Below are the prevalent 8 negative spirits or unpleasant factors that are responsible for delay in marriage for many searching spinsters or single guys in some cases.

1.

Boyfriend/Girlfriend Illusion!

The last thing on a boy's mind is marriage. Boys don't think of early marriage because they want to make money first. Therefore, they enter into relationship just for fun and regular romping. That is why if the lady should get pregnant, they ask her to abort it, or they will deny her, because they aren't ready for marriage.

If you are a single lady and living together with a single guy who is “browsing” you for free with the password of: "I will marry you." You are like the fairy tale "Alice in Wonderland."

If you are sincerely ready for marriage as a single lady, stop dating boys. Boyfriends will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors because they will be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wants to marry you.

2.

Engagement Ring Shackles!

This is that negative factor or habitual tendency that makes a single lady to keep raising her ringed finger to show the world that one handsome man who is based in Dubai (UAE), Canada, UK or USA engaged her.

When the serious suitors in her country that are ready to settle down see the engagement ring on her finger, they will pass over her because the engagement ring tells them she have been taken. However, after many years, time is going and her foreign based prospect isn't saying anything again. Anytime she calls his phone number, the line is always unreachable or switched off!

The engagement ring have started to rust on her finger in protest. Many engagement rings are actually handcuffs, some are not better than key holders. Aunty, refuse to be Queen of the Rings!

3.

Hard To Get Syndrome!

As a single lady, this pervasive negative spirit tells you not to accept a marriage proposal from a man in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary “hard to get” games so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate.

It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don't pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother.

This negative spirit will not leave you until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying "can't he even wait for me?"

Wait for you? Because you are a chaste virgin? Aunty, if you truly love a serious brother and you perceive he is God's will for you accept his marriage proposal. Stop procrastinating!

4.

Proud Spirit Attitude!

As a single lady, this is that foul spirit that tells you to always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful, highly educated and anointed. That negative spirit that tells you that every brother that greets you is not your class, so you keep ignoring and looking down on them.

That proud spirit that doesn't allow you to greet brothers except those that ride exotic cars or expensive SUVs. Aunty, calm down and be humble. You won't marry yourself oh!

5.

Denominational/Tribal Spirit!

Some searching ladies are very picky when it comes to relationship. Some will say: "I am a Catholic and must marry a Catholic so that our marriage will be sanctified."

"I am a Deeper Lifer and must marry one who is a Deeper Lifer as well so that our marriage will be deep."

"I am a Redeemer and must marry a Redeemer at all cost, any other brother isn't redeemed." Really, even if God is leading you to him?

"I am from Rivers State and must definitely marry from Rivers." Okay, search very well on Google!

This denominational/tribal spirit has kept many ladies bound for several years due to fruitless searching for compatible partners. Some of them have reached menopause because of their advanced age.

Aunty, understand that all true believers are brethren-in Christ. If God is leading you to another denomination or tribe, kindly obey Him. Stop delaying yourself!

6.

Bad or Repulsive Character!

The character of some ladies is very shocking! They will open their mouths to insult someone disdainfully and you will cry for the person. They quarrel and fight wildly in public, no shame, no self-respect and no dignity.

Their pride, arrogance and attitudes are making all the eligible bachelors to run for cover or flee from them like ants running away from raging fire.

This repulsive spirit has kept some ladies perpetually single. By the time any man gets close because of her beautiful appearance, her bad character will chase him away. Aunty, this year, work on your character. Change sincerely and your date will be fixed this year in Jesus name.

7.

Poor Dress Sense!

This is that tendency that prompts you not to dress well because of religious piety. It may be responsible for the marital delay of some searching ladies. How? You dress shabbily and add 10 years to your real age. You dress anyhow and you look like grandma.

You dress always like an elderly woman and brothers will be greeting you "Good afternoon Ma." "Yes Ma." "Thank you Ma." You prefer to use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and lemon head tie.

You are a lady but often dress like a man. Sister, no man wants to marry his fellow man. Dress well, don't under dress and don't over dress. Dress modestly always.

Don't dress indecently or immorally like hookers. Remain always decent, personable and responsible. This will attract serious and responsible suitors who are ready for marital commitment.

8.

Spiritual Problem/Bondage!

This is for real and general, therefore single ladies/guys should be prayerful always. There are some single ladies/guys whose marriages have been hijacked in spirit realms and only fervent prayers and God can break such yokes.

There are some single ladies whose wedding gowns have been stolen in the spirit realm and it is only God that can help to recover them.

There are some single ladies/guys who are operating under evil family pattern and curses, it is only God that can set them free. There are some single ladies that have been married with children in the marine spirit realm, it is only God that can deliver them.

By God's grace, as a single lady/guy, you will not fall into the traps of your enemies in Jesus name. Remain grateful to God, graceful and prayerful always. All will be well. Don’t give up!

50 Vital Reasons Why You Should Regularly Read Knowledgeable Books!

In this modern world, it is essential to read knowledgeable books regularly in order to remain well informed, inspired and capable in any endeavor one embarks on either online or offline.

Informative books can be either in hard cover version or e-book (PDF) format. Below are 50 vital facts why you should regularly read knowledgeable books.

1. Books help you to feel more confident.

2. Books help you to travel around the world in the cheapest way.

3. Books develop your personality.

4. Books provide food for thought.

5. Books make you laugh and think.

6. Books draw you towards perfection.

7. Books stimulate creativity.

8. Books bring out writing talent.

9. Books help you in communicating.

10. Books clear your vision.

11. Books satisfy your curiosity.

12. Books help you make better choices.

13. Books help you build literary talent.

14. Books do not require any special device to teach.

15. Books increase your attention span.

16. Books are fruitful pastime.

17. Books can be used anytime, anywhere.

18. Books provide entertainment, when others fail.

19. Books make you powerful.

20. Books help you know the 'Whys' and 'Hows' of everything.

21. Books help you to create and spread fun.

22. Books help you travel across time intelligently.

23. Books keep you updated with facts and figures.

24. Books spread love, affection and knowledge.

25. Books make the best of friends.

26. Books take you to intellectual environment.

27. Books help you feel the world around you.

28. Books entertain your mind.

29. Books broaden your horizon.

30. Books bring Nature to your doorstep.

31. Books bring about a 'personality change.'

32. Books increase comprehension.

33. Books do not require company.

34. Books are stress-busters.

35. Books develop a sense of belonging to people around you.

36. Books provide mental and physical relaxation.

37. Books act as a communication tool.

38. Books are intellectually satisfying activity.

39. Books provide spiritual experience.

40. Books provide emotional strength.

41. Books build your self-esteem.

42. Books help and encourage your imagination to soar.

43. Books make you smarter and wiser.

44. Books help you grow.

45. Books take you to a 'world of dreams.'

46. Books can change your life and vision.

47. Books help you in achieving 'life goals.'

48. Books develop wonderful experience.

49. Books transform lives.

50. Books inspire, motivate and build Nations.

In order to become knowledgeable and well informed always, be challenged to start reading informative books and not just storing them on book shelves. Remain always knowledgeable!

Vital Business Strategies & Key Decisions for Your Online or Offline Business Success.

In this contemporary digital world, you can accomplish your objectives if you implement your great ideas positively. Don’t just live from day to day, taking life as it comes. This mentality is a negative mindset because it means you have been pouring large portions of your potential success down the drain of failure.

You will remain unsuccessful if you are living a mediocre life. Ensure that you don’t miss the exciting adventure that occurs when you are planning your way to remarkable achievement and prosperity either online or offline.

You have an in-born ability to plan your way to success. Your plan will become a reality when you trust God for your success attainment. However, ensure that you take purposeful action whenever great opportunity is knocking at your door.

You should not expose yourself to the disappointments, delays, frustrations, pain and financial difficulties that always accompany procrastination and mediocrity. You can succeed inspite of many obstacles along the way to success. You will only fail if you don’t have a plan for your success. You will achieve what you planned for.

Your master plan for success will become a reality. Just have a definite plan by writing down your objectives. Ensure that you conceive what you wish to accomplish and hold to that expectation. Set a target for your success actualization and begin to work toward that goal.

You will achieve an outstanding success if you are eager to get ahead in life. Don’t let challenges overwhelm you. Rise above them victoriously. Through divine intervention, there will be an open door of opportunity for your desired success to become a reality.

You need to supplement your main source of income with other sources of income that will generate regular revenue. This will ensure that if one source dries up, you won’t go through any sort of financial crisis.

You need dedication, great focus and persistence to succeed in your goal attainment. You can do some online home-based or small businesses that will help you to augment your present income. This will make you financially successful due to additional streams of income.

You can build sustainable income streams online by identifying what suits you most. Then, you learn how it works. Afterward, you start small and remain persistent until you become financially successful.

You should not indulge in “get-rich-quick” schemes. Ensure that you utilize legal ways to earn your income either online or offline. Don’t be deceitful or dishonest.

You should be accountable, reliable and God fearing. You will gain credibility when you are trustworthy. Be above board, maintain high moral standards, be hopeful and take purposeful action always. You can plan for remarkable achievement and prosperity. They are achievable. You will make it. Don’t give up.

You should target a niche market that will always be interested in your products and services. Ensure that you discover the problems in that niche market and provide the solution through your essential products and services. 

You should sell your solution to the niche market profitably. Therefore, your products and services should be very desirable. You will secure confidence and regular patronage from your target market when your products and services are very valuable and trustworthy.

You should be very unique. Don’t imitate people by selling what others are selling, neither sell in order to impress. The people you want to impress with your products may not be impressed. Therefore, establish your authority through originality. You should be innovative. 

You need guts and determination. Ensure that you move forward boldly and win the race for your online or offline business success. Put in your time, your intelligence and your positive thinking. When investing your money, have a target. With your great focus, you will have the strength to continue the race for business success until you get to your desired destination.

You should not be deceitful or dishonest. Be accountable, reliable and God fearing. Your credibility will enable you to retain your customers and get more customers through referrals from satisfied and loyal customers. Ensure that you satisfy your customers all the time. You will be considered trustworthy when you are truthful.

You will make consistent profits when you are authentic and able to substantiate your claims. Be bold by implementing what you know. Prove it by what you do. Let your brilliance be evident. This will ensure targeted traffic conversion online through your website or blog.

You should ensure that you build relationships. This will enable you to make profits by selling your products or services to your dedicated followers. You should be aware that online or offline success, accomplishments and achievements are facilitated by people.

You should have high standards in both your personal life and online business. Ensure that you continue to raise those standards. If you can’t raise them, then don’t fall below the high standards. Your dedicated followers will become disappointed if you let them down woefully. Therefore, it is your continuous progress that will provide the unlimited open space to be able to give more and get more. 

You should not derail yourself. Be hopeful, take purposeful action always. You will definitely become a great achiever if you don’t give up. Your success is certain. Yes, it is possible! 

You should ensure that you identify the knowledge you possess. Share your vital information with other people online. They will commend you and become dedicated followers. You can acquire your knowledge through intense online researching, dedicated offline studying and from personal or someone’s experience.

Your website or blog should provide vital information about essential products and services, e-commerce, knowledge enriching articles, frequently asked questions and answers, product reviews and recommendations, business success tips, health and safety tips, online business strategies, current news and updates, etc.

When you are renowned for vital information sharing, your online business will get global recognition. Therefore, strive to set up a fully functional and effective website or blog in order to become relevant globally.

You should be willing to learn by remaining well-informed. However, don’t learn things that are not relevant or confusing. Ensure that you learn what is sufficient enough to meet your goal of starting an online business.

You should set aside adequate funds to run your online business. Your Internet connection should be fast and reliable. Make sure that your website or blog can load quickly for your convenience and that of your site visitors.

You can’t generate legal income online if you have nothing to sell. It is either you possess a vital skill people are willing to pay for or create a product they will buy. Discover the problems that people have and then create a product or render a service that can solve these problems. Always be watchful for new opportunities and create products based on what people will want to buy.

You should be innovative and technologically compliant. Utilize your great ideas wisely. Drive highly targeted traffic to your website or blog regularly. Advertise your products and services. Utilize both paid and free advertising. Make relevant posts on online forums. Submit relevant articles to article directories.

You should track the adverts you are running to assess what is working and what is not. Remain relevant as a Netpreneur by providing valuable information to your site visitors regularly. You will excel in your online business and become globally relevant through effective knowledge sharing. You should remain consistent and action driven always.

If you want to thrive in your own business, you must strive to surmount tough challenges and come out successfully. You will accomplish this feat by utilizing the vital strategies, key decisions and purposeful actions of an astute entrepreneur. This will enable your business to become highly successful.

You should be confident of your ability. You have an in-born capacity to achieve certain tasks. Therefore, develop strong confidence that you can accomplish such tasks. Ensure that you try your best because success in life and business entails believing and applying your in-born abilities.

You should utilize your God-given talents. Don’t bury your talents. When you take prompt action based on your absolute belief and confidence, you will succeed in producing world class products that can compete favorably with imported kinds on quality and durability.

You don’t have to be perfect before venturing into business. Just get going. You will become perfect in the course of running your business when you keep acquiring more knowledge and on-the-job experience.

If you are venturing into your own business and you are waiting for everything to be perfect before you commence business operation, you will continue to wait perpetually. Stop waiting! Ensure that you start with what you have presently. Rome was not built in a day.

You should persevere in reaching your goals because success will come eventually. Ensure that you are not overwhelmed by initial rejections and failures on the way to achieving your success. If you don’t quit, you will eventually succeed overwhelmingly because the opportunity for your business breakthrough will surely emerge one way or another.

You will definitely accomplish your anticipated success if you don’t give up untimely. Remember, victors don’t quit! Quitters don’t win!

You should sell what people want to buy if you want to make sufficient money in your online or offline business. People will patronize your business constantly if you are selling what they really want immediately, rather than what they will need later on.

You should sell products that people want consistently or provide services that people want regularly. Don’t copy so many people who are selling what people need if you are just starting your business. Established companies that are financially strong can afford to sell needs, even though they have to wait sometimes for people to decide positively.

You should anticipate and prepare for possible future developments. If you want to achieve business success, you should be able to assess the trends and developments your industry may likely experience in the future, and so get your business prepared for such eventualities.

When you are fully prepared for possible future developments, you will reap the benefits the new era has in stock before other unprepared businesses start adjusting their operations to also tap into it. This discerning ability will enable your company to effectively position itself to become a market leader in your industry. 

11 Vital Facts You Should Know About Dating and Relationship!

Relationship: Marriage Bound Dating Is Not Trading or Commercial Venture!

In this contemporary era, some people have wrong perception about dating either it is being done online or offline. Therefore, it is pertinent to clear some of the major misconceptions about modern dating.

What is dating? The art of dating means studying someone you have seen as a potential for marriage. This process is very important and acts as the foundation of serious relationship which lead to marriage.

The 11 vital facts below will enlighten you extensively on what you don’t know about modern dating and relationship matters.

1.

Due to the fact that some people are not real and can change after a time, dating offers you the opportunity to do your own background checks, investigation, questioning and interviews just to make sure you are with the right person.

You should know that dating is not trading or an activity of buying and selling goods and services. This is not a profit-making venture. Therefore, serious dating should be built on true friendship and sincere unconditional love.

2.

If you are a disciplined young lady, anytime you agree to date a man either online or offline, please bear in mind that you are studying the man for marriage. Therefore, you are not trading your body for money or regular financial support.

3.

As a female student in tertiary institution, it is pertinent to know that the young man you are dating is not responsible for your daily upkeep, school fees or feeding money.

However, if he wants to offer help, ensure that you ask him whether there is any “hidden charges” or the terms and conditions. It is essential to know his true motive from the onset of your cordial interaction.

4.

As a responsible lady, your sincere love is not for sale so you should not entertain any form of bidding, buying, trading or exchange.

One thing about money is that, it can make anybody look real. Indeed, fake suitors can shower money on you to make you think they are real.

5.

As a decent lady, you should be open and honest with the man you are dealing with as well as with yourself. Ensure that you know what is good for you and what is bad for you in any relationship.

Therefore, know what you want and be willing to do what it takes to get it, rather than using men for that in the name of dating.

6.

As a man or woman in a serious relationship, it is honorable to manage the little you have, be content with that and work on getting your own bread rather than waiting to be fed always.

Don’t cheapen yourself. Being handsome or beautiful outside is not enough, being honest makes you more attractive.

7.

You should be a real goal getter, for such a lady doesn't stress about what or how much a man has. A responsible lady is working on her own and only thinks about what the two can build together in the future not what she can gain or get from her relationship with a man.

8.

On the part of a man during dating period, if you are going to treat dating as trading then please remember s*x is the price for how much you spend on the lady you are involved with. To her, after giving s*x, she has done her part of the bargain.

Having s*x with her or providing for her doesn't mean you own her. Either of you are just mutual customers or trading business partners.

9.

As a responsible man, if you don't want commercial dating, then don't start it. The fact that you bought an expensive Android Smartphone for a lady doesn't mean she can't speak to any other male on it.

The fact that you rented an apartment for her doesn't mean she can't accommodate other unknown cousins. Remember you are just business partners and she has the right to do business with others too.

10.

The fact that you have the password to her social media handles doesn't mean you are winning, for not all transactions take place there. Serious business minded people know how to keep their trade secrets.

11.

Now that you know the consequences of commercial dating, ensure that you truly know what you want and go for that.

If it is marriage bound dating you want, the aim is to find the one who will watch every sunrise with you until the sunset of your life.

That is what serious and permanent relationship is all about. Therefore, marriage bound dating is better than commercial dating.

In conclusion, if all your focus during dating period is money, the Bible cautions: “For the love of money is the first step toward all kinds of sin.

Some people have even turned away from God because of their love for it, and as a result have pierced themselves with many sorrows.” (1 Timothy 6:10).

Therefore, since only the wise people will understand wise counsel, let true unconditional love refine you always.

What Is True Unconditional Love In A Serious and Permanent Relationship?

As a single man or lady in a serious relationship, don't date because of money. As a lady, if you have a man who loves you and cares about you with the little he has, appreciate it and be content with it. You should stop getting into relationships because you have a lot of demands and wants and you want your man to take care of them all.

You should stop making your man a goldmine or consider him as your "ATM" that he has to take care of everything. Your man also has a life to live and his own demands to fulfill. In addition to that, you should stop getting into relationships with high expectations. High expectations will demoralize you and you will get disappointed for nothing.

If you are with a man and he is unable to provide everything you want yet you adore him sincerely, then find a job and cater for yourself. If you can’t find a job or you are handicapped then walk out of the relationship instead of cheating and find someone capable or an organization for disabled people to support you.

As a morally upright person, you should cease getting into relationships and marriages for wrong reasons. The plain truth is that money can’t buy true love and happiness. If it did then some rich people wouldn't have been single, they wouldn’t have been crying for love and they wouldn’t have been divorcing often.  In reality, money just sustains life but it can’t complete everything. Therefore, be wise always.

True Unconditional Love Is The Answer!

If you are already married, the first thing that can make or break your marriage is the love issue. To be sincerely in love with your marital partner will make your marriage work, whereas lack of true love can break it.

Agape love is the solution to marital strife, unforgiveness, selfishness, envy, malice, slander, disrespect, adultery and many unpleasant issues in marriages. Agape love will prevent physical, verbal, emotional and sexual abuse in marriage relationship.

What Are Four Kinds of Love?

There are four Greek words for love with an acronym: "APES."

A — Agape

P — Phileo

E — Eros

S — Storge

The four Greek words are present in a meaningful marriage relationship.

1. Agape: This is divine love. It is unconditional because it accepts people as they are. Therefore, it is the God-kind of love that is sincere, permanent and undemanding. We need to love God, our marital partners and our neighbors as ourselves with Agape love.

2. Phileo: This is love between friends. Therefore, it is friendly love. There should be true friendship between marriage partners. It will solidify the relationship due to cheerful and continuous cordial rapport.

3. Eros: This is intimate love between husband and wife. It is romantic, erotic or sexual love. To avoid marital conflict, you should have erotic love only for your spouse and not for someone else. Erotic love is a mutual bond in a meaningful marriage.

4. Storge: This is love between family members. Therefore, it is family love. One naturally shows storge love to members of one's nuclear and extended families. Hence, the common saying that blood is thicker than water.

In conclusion, true love is the greatest force in the universe. The Bible affirms this vital fact. "Meanwhile these three remain: faith, hope and love; and the greatest of these is love." (1 Corinthians 13:13). True love is trusting, loving and forgiving. The major cause of divorce in marriage is lack of true love. Many married partners divorced due to lack of sincere love or true intimacy or because one or both partners fell out of love.