11 Vital Facts You Should Know About Dating and Relationship!

Relationship: Marriage Bound Dating Is Not Trading or Commercial Venture!

In this contemporary era, some people have wrong perception about dating either it is being done online or offline. Therefore, it is pertinent to clear some of the major misconceptions about modern dating.

What is dating? The art of dating means studying someone you have seen as a potential for marriage. This process is very important and acts as the foundation of serious relationship which lead to marriage.

The 11 vital facts below will enlighten you extensively on what you don’t know about modern dating and relationship matters.

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Due to the fact that some people are not real and can change after a time, dating offers you the opportunity to do your own background checks, investigation, questioning and interviews just to make sure you are with the right person.

You should know that dating is not trading or an activity of buying and selling goods and services. This is not a profit-making venture. Therefore, serious dating should be built on true friendship and sincere unconditional love.

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If you are a disciplined young lady, anytime you agree to date a man either online or offline, please bear in mind that you are studying the man for marriage. Therefore, you are not trading your body for money or regular financial support.

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As a female student in tertiary institution, it is pertinent to know that the young man you are dating is not responsible for your daily upkeep, school fees or feeding money.

However, if he wants to offer help, ensure that you ask him whether there is any “hidden charges” or the terms and conditions. It is essential to know his true motive from the onset of your cordial interaction.

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As a responsible lady, your sincere love is not for sale so you should not entertain any form of bidding, buying, trading or exchange.

One thing about money is that, it can make anybody look real. Indeed, fake suitors can shower money on you to make you think they are real.

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As a decent lady, you should be open and honest with the man you are dealing with as well as with yourself. Ensure that you know what is good for you and what is bad for you in any relationship.

Therefore, know what you want and be willing to do what it takes to get it, rather than using men for that in the name of dating.

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As a man or woman in a serious relationship, it is honorable to manage the little you have, be content with that and work on getting your own bread rather than waiting to be fed always.

Don’t cheapen yourself. Being handsome or beautiful outside is not enough, being honest makes you more attractive.

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You should be a real goal getter, for such a lady doesn't stress about what or how much a man has. A responsible lady is working on her own and only thinks about what the two can build together in the future not what she can gain or get from her relationship with a man.

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On the part of a man during dating period, if you are going to treat dating as trading then please remember s*x is the price for how much you spend on the lady you are involved with. To her, after giving s*x, she has done her part of the bargain.

Having s*x with her or providing for her doesn't mean you own her. Either of you are just mutual customers or trading business partners.

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As a responsible man, if you don't want commercial dating, then don't start it. The fact that you bought an expensive Android Smartphone for a lady doesn't mean she can't speak to any other male on it.

The fact that you rented an apartment for her doesn't mean she can't accommodate other unknown cousins. Remember you are just business partners and she has the right to do business with others too.

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The fact that you have the password to her social media handles doesn't mean you are winning, for not all transactions take place there. Serious business minded people know how to keep their trade secrets.

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Now that you know the consequences of commercial dating, ensure that you truly know what you want and go for that.

If it is marriage bound dating you want, the aim is to find the one who will watch every sunrise with you until the sunset of your life.

That is what serious and permanent relationship is all about. Therefore, marriage bound dating is better than commercial dating.

In conclusion, if all your focus during dating period is money, the Bible cautions: “For the love of money is the first step toward all kinds of sin.

Some people have even turned away from God because of their love for it, and as a result have pierced themselves with many sorrows.” (1 Timothy 6:10).

Therefore, since only the wise people will understand wise counsel, let true unconditional love refine you always.